The Best Sexual Positions That Enable A Woman To Achieve Orgasm Every Time

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By: Roberto Bell

The best sex positions for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse are something every lover should know.

Though she may not want an orgasm every time you have sex, she certainly isn't going to be too pleased if sex finishes when you've ejaculated, rolled over and gone to sleep! The surest way to ensure her sexual pleasure is to make sure she's had at least one orgasm before you ejaculate. There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of positions that will let her get the pleasure she craves, while making sure you don't miss out on your orgasm!

First, if you haven't tried sex in the woman on top, then check it out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to enjoying sex - it's a position that permits them to move in the way that gives them the greatest chance of an orgasm, whether that's through clitoral stimulation or vaginal stimulation. She can move around much more in this position, and because she's in charge of her movements, she's likely to get orgasmic satisfaction. She can either rub her clitoris against the shaft of your penisgrind it against your pubic mound, or lean back or forwards so that her vagina gets pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If you can control your ejaculation, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during sexual intercourse.

If she wants to increase the feelings in her vagina, she can use her PC muscles to squeeze your penis: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly add to the pressure on her G spot - and most likely increase the chances of her having an orgasm and also ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (Female ejaculation is a new idea for many men - but basically, if her vagina is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she achieves her reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her vagina will squirt out during her orgasmic contractions.)

And another advantage of woman on top sex is that you can see her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she's facing away from you, you can see her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, known as the Reverse Cowgirl,uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much.

And what next? Well, the good ol' man on top position. But before you groan, think again. Many women like missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, gives you really deep penetration and the chance to thrust deeply and powerfully. What's more, if you have an erection which curves upwards, as many do, then sex in the man on top position will allow your penis to stimulate her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, either with a vibrator or with your fingers, and you have the best of all possible worlds for her!

As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very satisfying way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex, and it can send her into a long-lasting orgasm. Another variation is to try eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just shimmer against her G spot, so don't go more than a couple of inches into her vagina when you try this routine.

Another great idea for her to reach orgasm is to have her sitting on a table or, for that matter, any other surface where she's the right height for you to enter her while you're standing in front of her with her legs apart. making love in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you embrace and fondle each other. If you want to increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, apply a little extra clitoral attention. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may stimulate her G spot in just the right way to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more exciting to be having sex in an unusual position and somewhere other than the bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful climax.

Next, there's a very loving sex position known as the "spoons" position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her vagina from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, especially if she lifts her upper leg a little bit while you push into her. The best thing about this sex positions is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, caress her breasts, and kiss back, while she (or you) can play with her clitoris. Another great variation of this position is the opportunity to make love on your sides as you face each other.

The best way to get into this position is by starting from the man on top, ask her to lift her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (agree which way you're going first!)). You can keep thrusting for much longer in this position before you ejaculate, as there's much less pressure on your erection. And, with the right amount of loving attention, and perhaps a helping hand on her clitoris, she may even reach orgasm before you ejaculate, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina.

And lastly, what about the thrill of doggy style sex? This primal position is many men's favorite position for sex, being so rude and raunchy, and it usually makes men come quite quickly. But many like it too, and there are plenty of reasons why. It allows deep penetration, it permits her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her man as she wishes, and, best of all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, especially if you hold her hips and guide her movements. If she raises or lowers her hips, you'll get a lot of exciting variation in sensation - so you can find the exact position that gives you both the greatest pleasure.

There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of the woman's orgasm during intercourse. But if you're the man, and these positions don't make her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Help her enjoy an orgasm from oral sex or masturbation before you enter her, and you'll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full.

Being able to reach orgasm during intercourse feels great, but don't forget there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction!