Guy, Get Your Girl

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I grew up in a household of grandmothers, mother, sisters, aunts, and older and younger female cousins. They thought racist and bathroom stories were hilarious. They could take a joke too. There was no father or other males in my youthful years. Being the only male in my family, I got lots of attention. I was always the cousin who got the extra piece of cake. I grew up thinking I knew all about women until I started college at Arizona State University.

Soon after enrolling at Arizona State, I soon realized there was a lot about females that I just didn't know. After one or two dates with a girl I was usually dropped for some other guy. I had two good friends who had starting body building at 13, and they had physiques that would rival Arnold Swartsnigger. They had the same problem. After one or two dates they would be dropped for some other guy too. What got to us most, there was a real nerd named Joe that had girls around him all the time. He was skinny, a little stooped over, and he was always fighting pimples.

In those days girls were restricted to their dorms after 10:00pm. The reception room was a busy place until the girls went to bed. What do college girls talk about? They talk about college boys. My two buddies and I got a temporary job of electrical rewiring the reception room of the girl's dorm. We decided to bug it at the same time. After that we listened to the
girl's conversations at our dorm with a speaker in our shared room. We soon had the shock of our lives.

One of my buddies would have given his left arm to have had a date with a striking beautiful girl, but she always turned him down. The girls talked about my friends and me, but they would gave us the quick nice guys treatments and moved on to other guys. The first time they discussed Joe, my fiends and I almost fell out of our chairs. The beautiful girl that my friend was after stated that she had never done it with a boy, but all Joe had to was ask and she would drop her drawers for him. My friend almost went into shock and wondered how the girl could overlook his beautiful masculine body and go for a nerd with pimples. We realized right then and there that we had a great deal to learn about women..

Joe was a reasonable good friend to start with. One weekend I met Joe at a local college hangout called "The Hut." After having two beers with Joe, I asked him his secret for charming so many college girls. Joe told me it was not always that way and that he never had one date in high school. Every girl he ever asked turned him down. After graduation from high school and feeling sorry for himself with tears actually running down his cheeks one day, his older sister gave him verbal hell. She told him he should quit feeling sorry for himself and start learning something abort women.

After that, Joe said he read every female psychology source that he could find, and he got girls to start talking about themselves and their goals in life. Joe said he had learned to like girls better than ever and that he enjoyed them more than since he learn to understood a great deal about them. He laughed and told me he carried two condoms in his wallet in case of emergency. Joe became one of my best friends in college. He used to fix me up with blind dates too.

Most of my female cousins married and divorced, married and divorced. They always had good husbands too. I think the breakups came about by the guys not understanding how females think and what keeps them turned on.

My wife has passed on, but we had an ideal relationship, because I took the time to study the psychology of women before I ever started looking for a wife.. We had three daughters. I have a wonderful relationship with them.. Women bring a great joy into my existence. I can't imagine a life without them.

I'm retired, bald, and overweight. I don't have a problem getting dates and repeat dates with women half my age and sometimes much younger than I am. I live in Las Vegas, and I'm referring to ladies like waitresses, receptionists, show girls, and tourist girls. I'm white, but when it comes to women I'm color blind. I have no trouble getting dates with blacks, whites, or whatever. .

There are some things that a woman will not put up with that can ruin a relationship on the first or second date. Dressing sloppy or dressing too casual on a first date will turn a woman off. A woman takes a lot of effort to look her best, and she expects her date to meet her at least half way. It's rude to be late without a valid excuse and women are turned off by it. Losing your wallet and asking a date to pay for drinks and dinner is a real turn off. Laying your cell phone down on the table and engaging in long telephone conversations when it rings is a good way not to get a second date. Bragging how good you are at your job and what a wonderful guy you happen to be are good ways not get as second date. Bragging about your numerous girl friends will assure you of not getting a second date.

Showing off expensive jewelry and indicating you are very wealthy will not get you very far with a serious woman. Whining and complaining about politics and whatever will not get you very far with a woman either. Complaining to the management about poor service and talking down to serving staff is a good way to kill a relationship before it even gets started. Picking your nose or picking at scabs is an absolute turn off for most women. Even if your dates smokes, lighting up a Cuban stogie or lighting up a pipe is an absolute killer. Telling a woman how sexy she is and that you want to get in bed with her will turn most women off right at the start of a relationship and a good way to assure yourself of no second date. Putting your hands where they are not suppose to be is a killer too. Talking about your health problems or your dietary quirks is a first date killer too.

I realize that being old, ugly, and fat will turn most women off upon initial contact. I also know these obstacles can be over come if a women is treated just right when meeting a man for the first time. You owe it to yourself to learn all you can about women before you settle for a permanent relationship with one.

Information about the Author: You owe it to yourself to get a deep understanding of the female psyche and an explanation of how to press those mental buttons inside every woman's head from a female herself, you can get this self help at www.guysgetgirls.net Arts and Entertainment Articles: http://www.article-buzz.com

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