7 Signs that she is a Fraud

A free article on Dating

By: Ovi Dogar

If you are looking for love and marriage abroad,
it is very simple to get it right, believe me!
There are thousands of honest, sincere women who
will be genuinely interested in YOU!

But after you are meeting a nice girl that seems
to be right for you make sure the person you are
talking to is FOR REAL.

Frankly, looking for a partner abroad is not any
different than any other search - search for a
house, a second-hand car, or whatsoever, in one
simple yet important detail: there will always be
people that will try to take advantage of you.

The perception that you have built about dating
scams can make you be cautious and suspicious all
the time! That is even worse. Chances are you
will make the same mistakes as other guys and
destroy what was a really good and honest
relationship - just because of being paranoid
about scammers.

But what if I tell you that there are some
specific signs that can make you solve the
enigma of sincerity in your relationship and find
out that the person you were corresponding with
is not who she said she is?

1. Money is a key object to know a scam. At some
point she begins to ask for money, frequently
asking that it be transferred through wire
services. She commonly states that the money is
needed to help resolve a family tragedy or
arrange for a trip to the United States. A copy
of a fraudulent U.S. visa is sometimes attached
to prove good intentions.

Beside this, there are other subtle signs that
can make you be suspicious from the first e-mails
she is sending you.

2. The most prominent is the fact that scammers
don't really read your letters. They don't
remember what you have written - actually, they
don't relate to the content of your letters at
all. They don't answer your questions.

3. Things move very fast, and she falls in love
with you within 1-5 letters. Those letters she
send to you could be sent to anybody: "her"
letters are pure monologue that becomes more and
more obsessed with "her love" to you and her
desire to be together with you despite of
everything that separates you.

4. She doesn't want to provide you with her phone
number pretending that she doesn't have a phone
or that she didn't speak English. Paper can bear
anything, you know that. But even phone
conversation can give you more clues of what's
really going on (though men usually tend to
misinterpret subtle signs excusing them by the
language barrier).

5. Your name usually appears only once, or does
not appear at all in the correspondence she is
sending to you. She uses "darling", "sweetheart",
"my love" and so on instead, because she is
probably afraid not to mix the names of her
victims or is sending the same messages to all of
them only changing the names.

6. She lets you know from the very beginning that
she is a student or how little she earns,
including the size of her salary even though you
never asked about it. But she never asks about
the state of your finances - neither uses the
word "financially secure" in her description of
the prospective partner.

7. She writes you almost every day (keeps sending
you photos even if you didn’t ask for) and in her
letters she talks a lot about trust, honesty and
sincerity. :)

So of course you must be aware of the fact that
there are some individuals out there who may try
to extract from you some amounts in cash, but
remember that not all pretty girls you are
meeting online are swindlers. Many men who were
looking for a foreign wife, and met a wonderful
girl without problems, are very surprised to find
information about scams - they did not know that
such a thing exists!

It is you who takes the choice and the risk.

Enjoy but don't get fooled.